Ten Ways To Have A Good Relationship With Your Veterinarian
Choosing the Right Veterinarian For Your Pet
Ron Hines DVM PhD 11/1/06
1) Select A Veterinarian Whose Personality You Like
The best way to choose a veterinarian is the same way you would select a church
– pay them a visit. Call ahead, don’t bring your pet, but tell the
staff you would like to drop by and introduce yourself. Yellow pages ads mean
nothing – generally the larger the yellow page add, the less likely you
are to like the veterinarian. For a start, ask some of your pet loving friends
which veterinarians they recommend. If you don’t have enough pet-owning
friends or are new to the areas then call your humane society or a few local
kennels and catteries. As a rule, veterinarians pull their clients from within
a five-mile radius. If price is a concern to you, select veterinarians practicing
in a blue-collar area. Call up the veterinarian’s office midweek and ask
to introduce yourself on the telephone or in person. If you are told that “Dr.
Bones is in surgery” ask for him/her to call you back when they can.
As a group, veterinarians tend to be outgoing, sympathetic people who like animals and like to please. But there are a few of us – particularly in specialized, board-certified or academic fields – who have weak inter-personal skills. However, these folks can be highly competent in their specialty.. A typical compassionate general practice vet will stand within three feet of you, give you considerable eye contact, and address you and your pet by name. He/she should smile, be upbeat and stroke your pet. The vet should never act in a hurry or attempt to speed up the exam. If he or she does, you should probably seek a less busy practice. Lack of some of these attributes can be due to the burnout many veterinarians experience after twenty or thirty years in their profession. After twenty or thirty years of tending to other peoples pet problems, some of us forget to wake up and sniff the roses every morning.
Condition of the office is also a good clue to your veterinarian’s priorities. Are the rooms clean and free from odor? Are instruments and equipment arranged methodically or laying about helter skelter? While your waiting in the reception room notice the items on display. Is your vet active in social and community organizations? Is he or she a local science fair judge? Only plaques from the Better Business Bureau, the local veterinary association and a notice that payment is due upon exam are not encouraging signs.
Veterinarians tend to select staff similar in temperament to themselves. If you do not like the receptionist’s attitude you will probably not like the veterinarian either. As you enter the establishment, does the receptionist look up at you, smile and ask how she can help you? While you wait, notice her telephone skills and demeanor. Too many auxiliary staff often means that the veterinarian is trying to maximize the number of clients seen in a day. In that case you will find youself spend very little time in actual conversation with the veterinarian.
2) See The Veterinarian Yearly or More Frequently If Required
Using your veterinary hospital as an emergency room leaves little time to make
friends and have pleasant experiences. Set an appointment with the veterinarian
you choose for a routine physical examination when nothing is noticeably wrong
with your pet. Engage the vet in conversation until you get to know his/her
style with you and your pets. By the way, bring in a single pet – not
a carload. It is hard for me to concentrate on more than one animal at a time.
When you contemplate purchasing a pet – insist that the seller allow you
to have your veterinarian do a prepurchase examination
before you loose your heart to a particular animal. Nothing
upsets me so as to have to tell the new owners of a pet bad news about its health
or temperament. Usually, by the time clients bring me their new pet, there is
no turning back - the pet is already a family member. If I find something seriously
wrong, it leaves me and the owners feeling so guilty.
3) Have The Right Family Member Come In
Nothing makes for more miscommunication and veterinary frustration than one
member of the family noticing a problem and a different, uninformed member of
the family presenting the pet to the vet. Remember, the pet cannot talk. We
rely heavily on the signs and symptoms that you tell us about. It is not uncommon
for a husband to bring in their pet to tell me it is limping but their wife
didn’t tell them which leg it was.
4) Set A Morning Appointment
We all fatigue during the day as we go about examining animals. If you want
a thorough, considered examination for your pet, do not come in as a late afternoon
appointment. And don’t make a Saturday appointment – Saturdays are
always hectic at an animal hospital. Monday is not much better because all the
emergencies of the weekend are waiting at the vet’s front door.
5) Make A List Of Your Questions Relating To The Problem That Brought
Your Pet
I find that appointments go smoothly when owners have made a list of the questions
they wanted to ask their veterinarian. This is also helpful if only one spouse
of a couple can accompany the pet but they both have questions. It is quite
exasperating to explain a problem in detail to one member of the family only
to be called an hour later by the spouse requesting I repeat everything I had
just explained.
6) Confine The Discussion To A Single Major Problem
It is quite rare that major unrelated problems occur simultaneously in a pet
or a person. If you present a shopping list of problems that concern you, you
are probably not visiting your veterinarian frequently enough. A common dialogue
goes like this: “Doc, I brought Peaches in because she is lame in her
left rear leg, hasn’t been eating well the last few months, has a bald
spot on her right shoulder and scoots. What do you think’s bothering her?”
To make an accurate diagnosis a veterinarian has to focus. Presenting multiple,
unrelated problems all at one time make focusing very difficult.
7) Ask Questions When You Do Not Understand
Some excellent veterinarians are better explainers than others. If you do not
have many questions when a veterinarian is finished telling you what he/she
thinks is wrong with your pet then your are either extraordinarily well informed
about veterinary medicine or you have not considered the problem fully. This
goes for most medical conditions that pets suffer from – not such things
as a splinter or fishhook. Some common questions you might ask are is this a
common or a rare condition? What do you think caused it? Is this a serious condition?
What is the likely outcome? Ask to read through some articles that the veterinarian
has on the subject.
8) Discuss Cost
Because we have almost no third-party payers in the United States, the cost
of veterinary care can be high. Ask the veterinarian or his/her assistant to
give you an expected estimate of the cost of the procedure or treatment. Be
sure to inquire as to the cost of follow-up visits and as to who bears the cost
of extra supplies or treatment that might later be required. Less financially
successful veterinarians often offer “package deals”. This does
not mean they are any less competent or reputable – just poorer businessmen.
If the procedure is not life-threatening you may choose to inquire at a number
of veterinary hospitals – prices are often quite arbitrary and vary greatly
between facilities.Veterinary State Boards often insist that the services of
a specialist be mentioned or suggested by all veterinarians. That may be an
extremely good idea or an over-reaction. There is little need to consult a specialist
if he/she has no techniques available to cure or stabilize your pet.
9) Be Nice
You get more butterflies with honey than vinegar. I know you are perturbed that
your pet is ill and that is what brought you to us. But try to be polite and
courteous with the veterinarian and his/her staff. They are there because they
want to help you. You will never know how important a thoughtful note; a bouquet
of flowers or box of chocolates can be to the veterinarian and the staff. It
makes our day. You will become the apple of our eye and get superb treatment
when your pet needs it.
10) Tell Your Friends About The Great Vet You Discovered
Very few veterinarians in the United States have as many clients as they would
like. There are just too many of us. Nothing will make your veterinarian happier
than for a valued client to recommend him/her to their friends. And be sure
you tell him what you did.
Keep Informed
The vast majority of veterinary clients in the US love and trust their veterinarian.
When stress occurs between you and your veterinarian, it is often due to situations
that are not, specifically, your veterinarian's fault. Most often, these situations
occur because of inadequate, direct, communication between you and your veterinarian..
It is often due to unrealistic expectations on your part or an error of your
veterinarian's staff. You must accept that a cure is not always possible. Veterinarians
work very hard. Their staff tend to love the Boss and be very protect his/her
time. Practices are very hectic when emergencies arise or when too many patients
have been booked. When this occurs, the staff has been known to: a) Give you
too much medical advice that you really need to hear directly from your veterinarian
b) Assume too many policy decisions and responsibilities that should be made
directly by your veterinarian c) Not accurately note enough items on your pet's
records. d) Not provide you with the proper forms e) Not provide you with enough
aftercare instructions. f) Not relay all important information from your vet
to you g) Under stress, caring staff may be falsely perceived to be rude, defensive,
short or condescending h) When things go wrong, you need to be informed immediately
by the vet, not the staff. If you sense any of this, your veterinarian wants
to know immediately.
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